Saturday, June 30, 2012

I'm still here!!

All packed up and ready to go- Dave, Dylan, and Keiser
Hello all! Long time, no blog, eh? Well I am just writing a quick entry from my iPhone to let you all know that I haven't forgotten about you and that I will be blogging on a more regular basis soon. I have found a Valdez bakery with free wifi, called Magpie's. It is owned by an old friend, Maggie, and is filled with espresso and amazing baked goods, that I will be sampling much of I'm sure, while I blog and keep you all updated on the goings-on of Dempsey mining.

It has been an eventful couple of weeks that I will have to fill you in on later when I have more time and a regular keyboard (so I'm not thumb text-typing from a 3 inch screen). We have moved the Free Spirit to Valdez and are currently making progress on the road up to the mine. We have been blessed with some beautiful days but today is a typical Valdez day- cold, grey, and damp. But with our cozy campers and trusty rain gear, we are keeping warm and dry.

The Free Spirit heads towards the Valdez mountains
Dylan and Keiser are adjusting well to the change in climate, schedules, and sleeping quarters and are enjoying all the outdoor playtime. Today I will make my way up to the mine with Dani and Rita so we can bring the boys their lunch and check on their progress. I hope to post pictures soon!!

Also, today is Doctor Dan's 60th birthday! We plan on celebrating with some dinner and a special cheesecake compliments of Maggie from Magpie's. Shout out to Doctor Dan in his 60th year- may it be full of adventure and gold!

I will be writing more soon so please keep reading. For now, I will leave you with a thought by Jack London....
"Don't loaf and invite inspiration: light out after it with a club, and if you don't get it you will nonetheless get something that looks remarkably like it."

Saturday, June 23, 2012

I'm a very lucky girl...

After a very challenging week and a chest cold from hell, I received this beautiful bouquet from my husband. It was a great reminder at just how lucky and blessed I am. Thanks Mr. Dempsey! You have made my day!

Sunday, June 17, 2012

Nights like tonight

I am posting this from my iphone, which is amazing to me. It wasn't too long ago that cell service at the cabin was scarce and hard to come by. But now, with the iphone, I am able to blog! Technology never ceases to surprise me!

Dylan, Keiser, and I had a great day relaxing at the cabin and visiting with family. D is worn out from playing with cousins all afternoon and is finally falling asleep in his pack 'n play. However, his sleep did take some coaxing on my part. The midnight sun was keeping him up and I had to pull out my mom tricks; tin foil on the windows, white noise from his favorite crib projector, and a rough rendition of the Carter Family's, "Mountain Lady". It worked... So far. And he is sleeping (or at least quietly laying) in his pack 'n play while I have some much needed Mommy time on the cabin deck.

Nights like tonight, when the Alaska sun shines bright for hours on end, always remind me of a night I spent with my best friend, Amber, when we were girls. We had begged her parents to sleep outside, promised we would stay in the front yard and behave ourselves. After much pleading, they relented and warned us to stay within the fence and to wear a lot of bug spray. When bedtime came, we didn't miss a beat. We put our warm pajamas on, doused ourselves in mosquito repellent, and marched ourselves and our sleeping bags to the front yard. We were on a mission. We wanted to see if we could see when, and if, the midnight sun would ever set, and if it did, for how long.

To make a long story short, we were up for hours, talking about boys and music and the latest 12 year old gossip. The sun didn't set until around 2am and it barely left the sky in a dusky haze before returning again 20 minutes later. After finally seeing it rise again and hearing the birds already beginning their morning song, we drifted off into a quiet Copper River Valley sleep. We woke early to the same unrelenting sun and jovial birds and went inside for a warm breakfast.

It's funny the memories that stick with us over time. For some reason, I have never forgotten that sleepover. Amber is still my best friend, I still have a romantic attachment to Alaska's long summer nights, and, even now, at my cabin 18 years later, I can't help but think of that time.

For now, and for the next several years, Dylan will be held to a strict bedtime. But when he is 12 and begs us to camp outside with his friends, I hope I have the same good sense that our parents had to say yes. The world is discovered and timeless memories are made of such things.
On cabin deck at dusk

Saturday, June 16, 2012

Cabin life is the best...

Taking some time out to remember Hobbit, visit friends and family, get Dylan and Keiser some fresh air, and visit my favorite 10 acres on earth.

Rest In Peace Hobbit

Our beloved Hobbit had to leave us for kitty heaven today.  We are very saddened that we no longer have our long-haired pal, but we are also relieved that he is no longer sick or in pain.  He was the coolest cat ever, hands down.  And we will miss him immensely.  For those of you who don't know him, let me tell you a little bit about the big personality in the small, fluffy body.

Sit like a person tactic.
First of all, Hobbes was no ordinary cat.  I know, I know.  Everyone says that about their pets.  But in this case it was very true.  He was charming, very, very charming.  He could charm the pants off of any cat-hater around.  Ask my husband.  He fell victim to Hobbes' charisma within hours of bringing him home.  He followed Dave around the house and sat at his feet every time Dave sat down or stood still.  Dave tried to ignore the tiny little fluff-ball and insist that he was a cat-hater but Hobbes continued the charm.  Hobbes' favorite cat-hater ammunition was the "sit-like-a-person" tactic.  He used to roll back onto his haunches and let his back legs fall out in front of him.  His front paws rested on his exposed belly and his whiskered little face would just look at you as if to say, "What?  I'm just resting on my laurels.  I've had a stressful day."  And it worked.  Every time.  Dave couldn't resist.  He bent over and pet him and allowed him to sit on his lap.  Soon Hobbes became Dave's buddy.  And we came to find out that whenever someone new walked through our door Hobbes would quickly become their buddy too.

Hobbes wins Dave over.
Over the years, Hobbes became a party staple when our friends came over for drinks.  We would empty the beer boxes into the fridge and begin our evening of loud music and drinking games.  When Hobbes would find an empty beer box, he would immediately climb right in and proclaim it "His Domain."  Anyone that would attempt to move the box, reach into the box, or even walk by the box was going to get a very defensive swat from Hobbit... AKA KING OF THE BEER BOX.  He was also a very good dance partner and was often waltzed around by my girlfriends to the tunes of Ryan Adams and the Talking Heads.

Hobbes was also known to commit quite a few party fouls.  He was notorious for stealing a drink of your beer when you weren't looking and then passing out long before the party was over.  He once fell asleep on top of the refrigerator and came tumbling off of it mid-snooze.  This prompted uproarious laughter by everyone at the party and Hobbes just shook his head, licked his paws, and cuddled up to whomever would give him a comforting pat.  All of our friends would repeatedly say, "Gosh I HATE cats, but I love Hobbes."  One of our friends even came up with a theme song for when Hobbes decided to enter a room.  It was percussion mostly- a snare-like, jazzy, sort of James Bond-ish tune.  And it was perfect for Hobbit's cool-as-a-cucumber strut.

Hobbes continued to be a good sport and followed us through our multiple moves.  He was flown to and from Portland, Oregon a few times, lived at the cabin in the summers, and even served as our co-pilot on the ALCAN... twice.  He was a true team-player and only showed hostility towards us when we would leave him for long periods of time.  Of course, we always had a cat-sitter to check on him and feed him, but for Hobbit, that wasn't enough.  He needed to be with us, he longed to have his family, to have noise in the house, to receive pats on the head and to show off his dashing good looks.  He was a very social cat, you see.  He could handle change, but he couldn't live without his people.
Sara dances with Hobbes.

He was even a sweetheart to Keiser.  Sure, they fought like siblings at times, but they liked to play as well and we often caught Hobbit cleaning Keiser's ears or snuggling up to him for a nap.  We could tell that he had crossed that cats-hate-dogs line and had become Keiser's buddy too.  But the ultimate cool-as-a-cucumber test came when Dylan joined the family.  At first Hobbes was jealous and wanted to steal Dylan's blankets and sit in his baby chair.  But he soon learned to live with the fact that he was no longer the baby and decided to try to be patient with this new bald-headed, tiny human that took his place.  Dylan loved Hobbit and wanted to be his friend but, as toddlers go, he didn't understand his boundaries, and he certainly didn't understand that Hobbes didn't like to wrestle or have his tail pulled or be chased relentlessly around the living room.  But Hobbit was patient, very, very patient.  He allowed the screaming, tail-pulling, parent-stealing tot to change his life forever.  Like I said, he was no ordinary cat.  He was patient.  He was social.  He was loving, so, so loving.

Dylan and Hobbes argue over who is more handsome.
So you can understand our concern last year when Hobbit's demeanor seemed to change and we began to notice a dramatic weight loss.  We took him to the vet and found out that he was suffering from Chronic Renal Failure.  We still don't know if his condition was genetic or if he somehow got into something toxic outside.  The vet advised us to switch him to prescription food and to give him a potassium supplement.  We did and we were all pleased to see that Hobbes took to the change well and all of his protein counts went up significantly in his blood work.

During the last year he never regained his weight and never completely acted like his old self again, but his physical functions were still going strong and he was still finding daily pleasure in cuddles, treats, and hunting mice outside.  He even went as far as to bring his first mouse home as an offering to us.  I was horrified to find the poor creature lying dead on my carpet one morning.  But Hobbes was proud of his catch and I knew it was his way of providing for the family, sweet thoughtful little guy that he was.
Just waking up
It doesn't get much cuter than this.

He has always been an expert snuggler so I wasn't too surprised when for the last five nights he slept right next to me, by my head, on the pillow.  But I did notice that his food and water bowls had been left untouched for days and that I hadn't needed to clean his litter box in awhile.  I really became alarmed when I offered him his favorite treats and he simply didn't seem interested.  He used to practically bite my hand off for those treats, but yesterday he barely gazed in my direction.  I spoke to Dave over the phone while he was at work and told him that if Hobbes wasn't eating by the morning that I was calling the vet.  He said that was best and that if Hobbit wasn't doing well then I would know what to do.

This morning came and I awoke to Hobbes on my pillow.  He was quiet and snuggly, purring up a storm as usual.  But I still could not get him to eat.  I put Dylan in the car and got Hobbes' travel carrier.  I was dreading this part.  He hates his carrier.  I am usually left with scratches and bite marks after attempting to get him in it.  But today, Hobbes just looked at it.  I gently pet him and put him in the carrier.  He didn't put up a fight at all.  He didn't meow, he didn't scratch, he didn't bite.  And when we got to the vets office, he was the calmest I'd ever seen him.

The vet took his blood and, sure enough, it was as I had feared, but knew in my heart was coming.  Hobbes' kidneys were in complete renal failure.  The vet said there was no more we could do at this point and that she suggested euthanizing.  Dave and I had had this discussion several times and I knew that at this point in his illness that euthanization was the right thing to do.  So it was with a reluctant and heavy heart that I visited with Hobbit for the last time.  Dave's Aunt Lisa was kind enough to babysit Dylan for me and my niece Amanda joined me at the vet clinic for moral support.


BFF's
I brought the blanket that Hobbit had always loved and slept on.  When I put the blanket underneath him, he immediately began purring.  This comforted me as I wanted him to be as content and relaxed as possible.  Amanda and I pet him, talked to him and I told him how much of a good kitty he was to us, how he had been such a great pal these last nine years.  I told him that some of the pats were from Grandma Dorothy as she asked me to pet him for her one last time.  I held him and told him how Dave wished he could be there with him and that Hobbes had achieved the impossible... he had gotten Dave to love a cat.

When it was finally Hobbit's time, I held his head and continued to pet him and tell him I loved him and how great he was.  Mandy stayed with me every step of the way.  And when Hobbit's heart stopped beating, we were all sniffles and tears.  But Hobbes was quiet.  He went quickly and gently and looked more content and comfortable than I had seen him in a long time.  I wrapped him in his blanket and told him thank you.  The vet reassured me that he was at peace now, but she really didn't have to.  He looked more peaceful than ever and I knew that he was taking his big catnap in the sky.  And I knew that when he woke in heaven, he would be greeted by all the mice, treats, and beer-boxes that he could handle.  I hope that they play him his theme song when he arrives.


Sunday, June 3, 2012

"Come and listen to a story about a man named Jed..."

"Come and listen to a story about a man named Jed..."  This song was playing over and over in my head yesterday as we pulled the Free Spirit 180 miles down the Glenn Highway with our F-250 diesel.  Our new home away from home has a been a bit of a challenge the last couple of days.  It all started with the installation of the sliding hitch.  Dave spent all day Friday climbing up and down the bed of the pickup, measuring, drilling holes, crawling underneath, and cursing underneath his breath.  I spent the day doing laundry, packing, chasing Dylan, and running to help my hard working husband when he called for my assistance.

After the hitch was finally installed (around 5 o'clock that evening), we quickly discoverd some faulty wiring and non-functioning brake lights.  After more fiddling, cursing, and a run to Lowe's, Dave managed to get the right brake light and the left blinker working.  Halfway there.  This small success (and our rough day) called for some celebration and we spent the rest of the evening catching up with some good friends and sampling Anchorage's tasitest hot wings and Russia's finest potato beverage.  The late night quickly turned into an early morning and we woke up tired and a little foggy.  But we are miners now, and parents of an energetic toddler, and neither of those jobs wait for one to snap out of a late night fog, so our duties began at 7am, no questions, no excuses.  We had breakfast, finished packing up the truck and the fifth wheel, loaded up the dog and the kid, and began our trek towards Glennallen.

About 20 minutes into the drive, passerby's began waving wildly at us and pointing at the Free Spirit.  My first instinct was to honk, wave back, and say, "Thanks!  She's a beauty isn't she?!"  But my husband quickly snapped me into reality by replying, "Oh crap, somethings wrong with the fifth wheel,"  followed by a few more colorful words.   We pulled over onto the freeway onramp and found that our jack had fallen down and had been dragging for who- knows- how-long and shooting sparks all over the Glenn highway.  Lacking any tools, Dave crawled underneath the Free Spirit and kicked at the broken jack until it fell to the pavement with a clang.  He picked it up, threw it into the pickup, and away we went.  Twenty minutes done, only about three more hours to go.

The rest of the drive went fairly smoothly, despite a few strange thunks and thuds that came from the hitch and Keiser's upset stomach that required an ubrupt stop and an emergency potty break.  We stopped at Eureka lodge and refreshed ourselves with a sandwich and a cheeseburger, then drove the last hour without interruption as Dylan entertained us with funny faces in the mirror.  When we pulled into the Dempsey driveway, Rita, Dani, and Apollo were there to greet us, and Dave hollared out the window, "The Free Spirit turned out to be a little too free spirited!"  Heh, heh.  My hubby cracks me up.

Dani holds a Copper River King caught in the fishwheel
Rita and Dani had been slaving away at the fishwheel since 5 A.M. and Dr. Dan was helping a friend lay a foundation until 7 P.M.  Needless to say, the Dempsey party was pretty exhausted, but Copper River Salmon are priceless and since 101 of them decided to detour into our fishwheel, there was still plenty of work to be done.  Dani and Dr. Dan filleted, Dave, Rita, and I vacuum-sealed, and Apollo babysat Dylan.  Keiser, the anti-social old labrador, layed in the saw dust pile outside.  When we finally began cleaning up the kitchen and filing upstairs to go to bed, our legs ached and we could barely keep our eyes open, but Dr. Dan called us back downstairs.  We groggily thudded back down the stairs and into the living room.


"Look outside." he said and pointed out a beautiful double rainbow in the sky.  It was bright, vivid, and seemed to stretch from the Richardson Highway halfway out to Mount Drum.  It was absolutely gorgeous and it created a deep contrast against the dark sky that could have been photo-documented onto a postcard.  Gosh, I love living here, I thought to myself.  And I said a little prayer in my head, thanking God for this beautiful life, for our safe travel, and for the bountiful fish that we had caught that day. Then I went to bed, listened to my son's quiet breathing, and fell into the deepest sleep that I've had in a long time. 


Today, Dave and Dan are continuing to diagnose the hiccups in the Free Spirit and we are anticipating a long afternoon of salmon vacuum-sealing and dog and toddler-chasing.  Tonight it's dinner at Tolsona Lodge with my Momma and the Dempsey clan. Tomorrow it's off to Fairbanks for Dave and I to attend our MSHA training class.  The jury is still out on the Free Spirit, but, so far, she's been an interesting and adventurous girl.  The real test will be this week's Fairbanks trip, but I have a feeling that she'll fit in well with the Valdez mine and the rest of the Dempsey camper trailer fleet.  I hope to write more soon and let you all know how MSHA goes!

"Well now its time to say good by to Jed and all his kin.
And they would like to thank you folks fer kindly droppin in.
You're all invited back again to this locality
To have a heapin helpin of their hospitality
Hillybilly that is. Set a spell, Take your shoes off.
Y'all come back now, y'hear?" ~Beverly Hillbillies Theme Song~